Adoption NOT 2nd place

I think a lot of people think adoption is a last resort. Not that everyone is not supportive but in general the underlying feeling is adoption is 2nd place / last choice. Sometimes when we tell people we are adopting they ask why we dont try to have kids or on adoption forums there are always lots of posts from women trying to conceive while adopting. Dont get me wrong being pregnant is something i would love to experience. Its like cross roads the left way the pregnancy way was blocked so we go right the adoption way. We dont care which way both have there good and bad points in the end they both end in the same road family / a baby. We didn't really care which direction its the end result that counts.